A new Start

2006-05-13T05:28:00.000-07:00

Booyakasha!!!

I'm back, but to stay? who will ever know..
2 years of inactivity in this random space in e internet.. what a waste of space..

Summarization of 2yrs being MIA.
- Started to invest
- Had a wonderful last year in poly ( It was a blast Travelling around..Holiday Year)
- Got my own crib
- Earn some, Lost some in investments
- Enlisted on e 9th Sept 2005
- After a yr & a half plus of our r/s, stuff happened and that was e end of it.
- Dream came true - Pilot Trainee
- A new start to a new beginnin,my dearest cory
- Passed Air Grading
- OCS Air Wing (Current unit)

Yup.. thats abt mainly what happened..It had been one of e best 2 years in my life till date and looking forward to whats in store ahead for me.

Lookin back.. I do miss the gd'old days..

On another note, there's a quite a few stuff that's been on my mind about.. Sigh.. EOCD,Wakeboardin Trainin and wots gonna happen in time to come..

Here's something to think about :

How do ppl determine if the "foundation" of their r/s is there?? is it when both of e parties feel really secure and comfortable with each other or is it when the couple has gone through thin and thick and are still together at the end of the day??

For me, i feel that most importantly BOTH should have similar goals in the long run, able to speak openly & honestly about everything under the sun, then will they feel secure and confident that things are going the right direction and they will not think that they are wasting time on each other...

What've been thru and i've realised is that, when both parties really understand each other without sayin a word, they just know it intuitionly will they know that @ that point of time, its 2nd nature.

Doing things @ e spur of the moment is what my close mates know and are just as spurin as me.

Each morning as I wake up, there's only one thing that keeps me doin the best I could and not wasting my time is to live each day as if its the last. It sounds cliche but I swear, if you live by it, you will have nothing to regret for. I've none.. do any of you?

Currently in a semi-emo mood.. thus far my entry

Got this from a source after having a gd chat..
"You probably know a couple or two who seem to be always fighting. Maybe your own relationship is riddled with tiffs and quarrels. Many are determined to win a battle that never ends. Others try to right the wrongs they have experienced in the past with someone new.

Unfortunately, this kind of behaviour is doomed to failure. When we bring baggage from a former relationship into the present, all new relationships simply become a continuation of the past.

For some, fighting is a fire that keeps their relationships alive. It lets them know the other cares. Unfortunately, fighting can easily become a habit, and when it does, a couple finds itself stuck.

Instead of communicating effectively and addressing issues, they fall into patterns of accusation and defense. Tenderness and intimacy cannot flourish in such an environment.
So if anger and fighting seem to be the fuel that keeps your relationship going, how can you end the war?

First, you have to stop blaming. While we're pointing fingers, and making the other feel guilty, we cannot see what's really going on. We ignore the good and highlight the bad. So, instead of thinking of all the ways the person has hurt you, focus on what the person has done for you, the ways they have been kind.

You have to realize the terrible toll fighting is taking on your relationship. What it is doing to your body, mind and spirit. Do you truly want this? Haven't you and your partner suffered enough? Why not choose happiness?

In choosing to be happy, very often you have to let go of the desire to be right. Expand your view and your heart. Would you want to be right but miserable?

The best defense against anger is feeling good about yourself. Build a healthy sense of self worth. Treat yourself well. Be good to your partner. Make life beautiful together. Hey you're a couple, remember? It can't be that hard! Don't let anger make you lose sight of that.

As we gather the courage to let go of anger, not only do we find new ways of being fulfilled with our partner, our overall health improves. Many new people and experiences will enter your lives.

You attract what you focus on. Let it be love."

-Purrrr-

AFST pls end soon.. I wanna go back AFS!!!

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